Never divert your spousal love to your children and ensure you don’t over-commit yourself to social engagements that you have not enough time for your spouse.
“Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.” – Proverbs 5: 18-19
“Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.” – Sings of Solomon 1: 2
“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave Himself for it.” – Ephesians 5: 25