In resolving conflicts, we must not lie; we must guard our mouth and control anger. We must aim at genuine reconciliation through forgiveness and be willing to change.
“Set a watch, O Lord, before my mouth; keep the door of my lips.” – Psalm 141: 3
“Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds; and have put on the new (man), which is renewed in knowledge after the image of Him that created him.” – Colossians 3: 9-10
“And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.” – Ephesians 4: 32