Don’t get counsel from those who have personal interests in your case. There are even pastors whose priority in counseling is protecting their own interests.
“Where no counsel is, the apeople fall; but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety.” – Proverbs 11: 14
“For by wise counsel thou shalt make thy war; and in multitude of counsellors there is safety.” – Proverbs 24: 6