Don’t ignore or disregard your spouse’s likes and dislikes. You can exchange lists of your likes in order to do them and avoid the dislikes as much as possible.
“A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend [that] sticketh closer than a brother.” – Proverbs 18: 24
“Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” – Amos 3: 3
“Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you.” – John 15: 14