The Bible insists that couples must not go to sleep with anger and leave unresolved matters overnight. Conflicts must be confronted and resolved as they come up.
“The discretion of a man deferreth his anger; and it is his glory to pass over a transgression.” – Proverbs 19: 11
“Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: Neither give place to the devil.” – Ephesians 4: 26-27
“Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.” – Ephesians 4: 31-32
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