You are blessed as a husband or wife if you can rejoice over your choice of spouse and be grateful to God for him/her 10, 20, 30 0r more years into marriage.
“Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.” – Proverbs 18: 22
“Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.” – Proverbs 31: 10
“Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.” – Matthew 7: 7-8